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Child care facilities take swine flu precautions

Area child care centers are stepping up cleaning practices among staff and children in an effort to prevent the spread of the Swine Flu. While hand washings and regular facility cleanings may have already been standard practice, many centers are adding new preventative policies such as more frequent washing, parent and child health practice education measures, and newly installed hand sanitizer mechanisms.

"We're observing an hourly hand washing policy with the children at the preschool," said Shawn Cadmes, director of Inland Vineyard Christian Preschool in Corona. The hand washing is in addition to extra sterilization of the center.

There were several children who didn't attend school this week, which may have been related to flu incidences.

"Ninety-eight percent of the parents have kept them in, but we did have the nearby school that just closed down," Cadmes said. Parents have also been reminded about the preschool's health policy, which asks parents to keep a child home if he or she is ill.

Alongside the school policy information, parents have been given handouts on symptoms and prevention from the World Health Organization, Centers for Disease Control and Prevention and City Health Officials.

Tender Care For Kids in Redlands has had several worried parents, but no students pulled from the facility.

"Out of 150 families, we've probably had two that were extremely concerned, but both have kept their kids in so far," said Bea Wilson, Tender Care director. "We've stepped up sanitizing door handles, toilets, drinking fountains, door knobs, all those kinds of common things."

Children are being reminded to cover their mouths when coughing and sneezing and to wash their hands.

The Boys and Girls Club of San Bernardino cares for children from schools all over San Bernardino and surrounding communities.

"The staff has been briefed on extra precautions," said A. Majadi, facility director. "We are installing extra hand sanitation machines throughout the club. The recreation room and all classrooms are wiped down daily. Restrooms, water faucets and doorknobs are all regularly cleaned.

"We're encouraging kids to pay attention and just keeping a very close eye. We'll follow the school district's lead as to what to do to protect families."

Peggy Holmes, director of Ruben Family Child Care in Moreno Valley has had some worried parents.

"They are very concerned," Holmes said. "We are washing, washing, washing our hands and practicing coughing on our sleeves, rather than our hands."

"We're doing extreme health checks in the mornings, no one can come in with a runny nose, fever, etc.," said Wendy Swift, director of the YMCA's Preschool University in Redlands. "We're being extra diligent."

There are hand sanitizer pumps throughout the building and parents are being required to clean their hands and their child's hands before entering.

"We're prepared if there is a case among our children or staff, the program will be shut down immediately," Swift said. "We're constantly on the lookout."

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Stay calm about the swine flu

Originally posted as a comment, this seems like good advice for Moms and Dads:

Let's keep our swine flu worries in check. After several days of excessive worrying, I've concluded that beyond taking cautious measures with my family, there's not much more I can do. Worrying isn't going to help; rather, it is going to make things worse. Check out my recently posted article "Swine Flu Worries Kept in Check" on my blog: mariposakisses.blogspot.com.

--Dianne (Riverside mom of three)

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How is the Swine Flu impacting you?

Have you been impacted by swine flu closures? Take our poll

The swine flu outbreak has prompted many school closures and cancelled events in the Inland area. We want to know if and how you have been affected by this. Share your thoughts on our poll, and add your comments below.

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Calming kids fears

The press has caught the Swine Flu bug and kids seeing all these big headlines and hearing the morning and evening news stations may be scared to go to school or out in public.

It seems like a good idea to reassure kids that this is a regular flu bug and the simple precautions everyone should always take to keep from becoming ill are all they need to do. Kids are hearing they could die if they catch this awful disease, so it's up to parents, caregivers, educators, etc. to reassure the worriers.

I am looking for parents willing to talk about worried kids and who have suggestions for calming fears. Please feel free to comment on the blog or call 951-368-9336 or e-mail to jdean@pe.com.

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Flu comes to the IE

The Marine Corp Base in 29 Palms has the first confirmed Inland region case of the Swine Flu. He's been quarantined, along with his roommate.

Pollard High School in Corona, Cole Elementary School in Highland, Mission Bell Elementary School in Jurupa and Indio High School have all closed until May 7 due to possible flu cases.

Following the advice of health officials, Pollard High School cancelled senior prom, which had been scheduled for this time.

Two students in Ventura County schools were also diagnosed with the Swine Flu yesterday. And there's a possible case in Long Beach.

California health officials announced a total of 14 cases in California, including the Marine in 29 Palms. There are 29 probable cases being investigated.

See staff writer Lora Hines' full story at www.pe.com/reports/2009/swineflu/stories/PE_
News_Local_S_swineflu30.406e399.html

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Mexico shuts down 'non-essentials'

Mexico's Health Minister just announced in a press conference the federal government is shutting down all "non-essential" services from May 1-6th to help prevent the flu virus from spreading. The shutdown is "temporary" and falls during the May Day and 5 de Mayo Holidays.

Essential government services that will continue to operate as usual include Federal police, Military, Health services, Pemex, Border and Customs services and more.

In Mexico there are now 99 confirmed cases of swine flu including 8 confirmed deaths.

Here's a breakdown of where these patients live:

83 Mexico City (federal district)
13 State of Mexico
1 Colima
1 Oaxaca
1 Veracruz

There are "suspected" cases reported in every state in Mexico. These are NOT confirmed cases but reported as suspicious. Testing is needed to prove they are swine flu.

All airports, highways and ports remain will remain open in Mexico.

--Angela Kocherga - Belo Border Bureau

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A case of the sniffles or swine flu?

Written by Guest Author Trudie Mitschang:

With so much coverage about the threat the swine flu outbreak poses, especially for young children, it's easy for moms to panic. Local emergency rooms in Redlands were swamped with people this past week - many of them families with young children - wanting to be tested for swine flu. None who were tested actually had the bug.

Trudie Mitschang
Guest Author

While it's better to be safe than sorry, knowing what symptoms to look for can alleviate a lot of unnecessary worry. People who are infected may experience fevers over 100 degrees, body aches, headaches, cough, runny nose, and sometimes, nausea and diarrhea. According to the CDC, if your child experiences any of the following warning signs, you should seek emergency medical care:

  • Fast breathing or trouble breathing
  • Bluish skin color
  • Not drinking enough fluids
  • Not waking up or not interacting
  • Being so irritable that the child does not want to be held
  • Flu-like symptoms improve but then return with fever and worse cough
  • Fever with a rash

In adults, emergency warning signs that need urgent medical attention include:

  • Difficulty breathing or shortness of breath
  • Pain or pressure in the chest or abdomen
  • Sudden dizziness
  • Confusion
  • Severe or persistent vomiting

Experts agree that good hygiene is your best defense against swine flu. Remind kids to wash hands frequently and cover coughs and sneezes with a tissue, or practice the "elbow sneeze." Avoid touching your eyes, nose or mouth - germs spread this way. A trip to Cabo is obviously ill-advised right now and it's probably a good idea to avoid large crowds found at amusement parks and sporting events. Obviously you should try to avoid close contact with sick people and if you or your child does get sick with influenza, CDC recommends that you stay home from work and school. One thing you don't have to forego though is that BLT you planned for lunch. Despite rumors to the contrary, you cannot catch swine flu by eating pork.

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MOMarama is now on Twitter! If you're a fan, it's at PEcom_moms. I'm a newby to Twitter so if you have fun suggestions, please share!

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Families invited to music event

The Cesar Chavez Perris Library is inviting the public to enjoy a free Family Music event with the UCR Gluck Fellows group, the Collegium Musicum, Saturday, May 2, at 3 p.m.

The program, "Pastime with Good Company: Early Music from the British Isles" will include pieces by court composers such as Tye, Dowland, Holborne, Byrd and Weelkes.

Special to The Press-Enterprise
The Collegium Musicum group demonstrates a lute used to perform early French music.

In addition to songs, dances and consort music from Renaissance England, the group will give demonstrations on an array of historical instruments, including lutes, viols, recorders, flutes, guitar, percussion and even crumhorns.

Where: Perris Library, 163 E. San Jacinto, Perris
When: 3 p.m., Saturday, May 3
Cost: Free
Information: 951-657-2358

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Officials test cultures for swine flu

No confirmed cases of the swine flu have yet been reported in Riverside or San Bernardino Counties, but public health officials have begun "preliminary tests on cultures taken from patients who have complained about flu-like symptoms since the state's first cases of swine flu were reported last week.

Read Staff Writer Lora Hine's article in Tuesday's A-section or at http://www.pe.com/localnews/inland/stories/
PE_News_Local_S_swineflu28.3eb60cf.html
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The Press-Enterprise for full details.

Good Day L.A. reported this morning that the Claremont school Our Lady of Assumption has been closed for the day due to a 7-year-old student's flu-like symptoms, but nothing has been confirmed.

The Centers for Disease Control announced Monday that surveillance of the disease had increased as more cases have been reported around the world.

As of April 27 at 1 p.m. confirmed cases were:
California, 7
Kansas, 2
New York City, 28
Ohio, 1
Texas, 2
Source: CDC

Good Day L.A. reported an update in the numbers for California and the U.S., with California cases up to 14 and national cases at 50.

The symptoms of swine flu are similar to those associated with the regular human flu, including fever, cough, sore throat, body aches, headache, chills and fatigue. Some people have reported diarrhea and vomiting. The CDC recommends the antiviral drugs oseltamivir or zanamivir for the treatment and/or prevention of the swine flu. They are most effective if taken within two days of initial symptoms.

The CDC recommends people take these everyday precautions to stay healthy:


  • Cover your nose and mouth with a tissue when you cough or sneeze. Throw the tissue in the trash after you use it.

  • Wash your hands often with soap and water, especially after you cough or sneeze. Alcohol-based hands cleaners are also effective.

  • Avoid touching your eyes, nose or mouth.

  • Because influenza is thought to spread mainly person-to-person through coughing or sneezing of infected people, avoid close contact if possible.

  • If you get sick, stay home from work or school.

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A storytelling journey

Families are invited to join singer and storyteller Karen Wilson in the family event "Going to Granma's" Wednesday, April 29, at 4 p.m. at the Temecula Public Library.

Wilson will take visitors on an imaginary trip to Granma's house using song and storytelling. During the trip, kids will begin with breakfast in the city and then take a bus ride. They'll arrive in the country for a walk through a field of animals and hugs at Granma's house and then head back to the city again.

This event is part of the series of spring cultural events the Riverside County Library System is hosting, said Arlene Cano, coordinator.

Temecula Public Library
Where: 30600 Pauba Road, Temecula
When: 4 p.m., April 29
Cost: Free
Information: 951-693-8900

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Kids can meet sea critters

Captain Carl and his mobile tide pool are coming back to the Riverside Metropolitan Museum for the last First Sunday event of the season.

Families visiting downtown Riverside Sunday, May 3, will be able to visit with sea creatures such as starfish, sea squirt and urchins while learning about how climate changes are affecting our fragile ecosystem.

The event, which will take place from 1 to 4 p.m., is free and open to the public. Call 951-826-5273 or visit www.riversideca.gov/museum for more information.

In addition to the Metropolitan Museum, several other downtown organizations will host free First Sunday activities for families. First Sundays will begin again in October with free activities downtown on the first Sunday of each month.

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From astronomy to sailing

Guided Discoveries in Claremont has several adventure camps in the area including AstroCamp Summer Mission - Explorer, AstroCamp Summer Mission - Voyager, Tallship Cruising Aboard SSV Tole Mour, Catalina Sea Camp and Catalina Junior Sea Camp. Call 800-645-1423 for information on any of the camps or visit www.guideddiscoveries.org

AstroCamps are located at 26800 Saunders Meadow Rd., Idyllwild. Campers will participate in hands-on science education, scavenger hunts, a carnival dance and more.

AstroCamp Summer Mission - Explorer
Ages 8-14
Dates: June 13-19; June 20-26; June 27-July 3
Cost: $900

AstroCamp Summer Mission - Voyager
Ages 10-16
Dates: July 5-17; July 19-31
Cost: $1,800

The Catalina Sea Camp is located on Catalina Island. Campers can scuba dive, snorkel, kayak, bike and more during three weeks of camp.

Catalina Sea Camp
Ages 12-17
Dates: July 5-24; July 26-Aug. 14
Cost: $3,500

Junior Sea Camp members can snorkel, sale, learn marine science, hike and more during their week-long visit.

Junior Sea Camp
Ages 8-12
Dates: June 13-19; June 20-26; June 27-July 3
Cost: $1,250

Tole Mour campers will be learn the ins and outs of sailing the tallship and engage in a "Challenge Sail" on their last day.

Tallship Cruising Aboard SSV Tole Mour

1 Week Cruises - Ages 10-16
Dates: June 20-26; June 27-July 3; July 5-11
Cost: $1,400

2 Week Cruise - Ages 13-18
Dates: July 12-24
Cost: $2,600

3 Week Cruise - Ages 13-18
Dates: July 26-August 14
Cost: $3,500

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Campers improve sport skills

For the kids who want to improve skill sets in their favorite sports, Big Bear Sports Ranch offers instruction in a camp-style atmosphere. There's Tennis, Golf, Multi Recreational, Brazil Soccer, UK International Soccer, Irish Soccer, Wake & Ski, Track-Cross Country.

Daily schedules for the camper will includes a morning camp meeting, breakfast and cabin cleaning before the first 3-hour session of sports training and recreation. Then comes lunch and more training, competitions and activities. Kids rest in the afternoon before dinner and the evenings will include movies, game shows, the alpine slide, skate night and dancing.

Pricing ranges from $550/week to $895/week. For more information visit www.bigbearsportsranch.com or call 909-585-3133.

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An ecological preserve treasure

Written by guest author Maura Ammenheuser on the subject On a Budget:

The Santa Rosa Plateau Ecological Preserve in Murrieta is such a treasure. I take my two kids there at least once every school break, year-round. We meet up with friends and hike a trail. The kids get their wiggles out in the fresh air and the grownups enjoy the magnificent scenery.

Maura Ammenheuser
Guest Author

The preserve includes 8,300 acres and a broad spectrum of ecosystems, some of which are rare both in Southern California and the U.S.

We haven't had much luck spotting wildlife, probably because when our group full of kids troops through it scares the animals into hiding! However, we saw a beautiful, enormous red woodpecker on one visit, a tarantula on another (creepy and fascinating -- wonderful entertainment for children) and last time (in February), frogs mating in the vernal pools. They produced unbelievable numbers of eggs, teensy black globes in huge strings that measured many yards. We were amazed.

The preserve's visitor center is open 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. daily. It offers docents who can answer questions, some displays explaining the plateau's geography and animal population (which includes snakes and bobcats, among other critters), trail maps and blessedly clean restrooms. The preserve itself is open longer than the visitor center, sunrise until sunset daily. There are Port-a-Pottys at the trail heads if you are there during hours the visitor center is closed.

I've only hiked two of the preserve's many trails, the one-mile Granite Loop, an easy walk that starts and ends at the visitor's center, and another, miles-long trail that goes past the seasonal vernal pools (they only contain water after winter rains) and leads to the adobes, bunkhouses used by cowboys in the mid-1800s. The adobe site is shaded by a 400-year-old tree and is an ideal picnic spot. The Granite Loop also has a few spots with tables or benches that allow picnicking. (Bring a camera; these rest spots are good places to take candid shots of your kids.) You must bring all your trash out with you, though, including food scraps, so pack a trash bag in your cooler. Biking and horseback riding are allowed on some trails, but call the visitor center for details at 951-677-6951, or see this link: http://www.riversidecountyparks.org/locations/nature-historic-centers/santa-rosa-plateau/

As if the scenery and getting-back-to-nature aspect of the preserve weren't wonderful enough, here's another reason I love going there: The cash-only fee is just $2 per adult, and $1 per kid age 2 to 12. The preserve is at 39400 Clinton Keith Rd., Murrieta, 92562. Find it from I-15 off the Clinton Keith exit heading west.

A final tip: On your way home from the preserve, stop by the Rite Aid on Clinton Keith Rd. at Palomar St., just before you hit I-15. The store includes an ice cream shop. A single scoop is just $1.19! Doubles, $1.69; triples (!!!) $1.99.

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A traditional summer camp

The Los Angeles and San Bernardino County 4-H Summer Camp program at historic Camp Seeley in Crestline will host all kinds of traditional camp activities. It's open to boys and girls ages 8 through 19.

For $275 for the week, campers can hike, craft, play sports, swim, fish, play games and more. The cost covers room and board for six nights and seven days. In the evenings there's a camp fire circle, singing of traditional camp songs and different entertainment for each night.

Past evening programs have included team games, carnival nights, talent shows, haunted walks and movie nights. This year's special events will include a live owl presentation and bottle rocketry.

Camp dates are June 21-27. Visit www.4hsummercamp.com or call 213-210-2630 for more information.

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Agency collects gowns for girls

Last year Great Oaks High School student Nicole MacKeller saw a problem that she wanted to solve. Many of the girls at her school weren't attending events such as Winter Formal, Homecoming and Prom.

The reason? They couldn't afford a new dress.

She and her mom, Tracy MacKellar, put their heads together and in October they came up with the idea for "The Couture Girl's Closet," a non-profit organization that collects donated gowns.

They take the gowns, dry clean them and ready them for the big night. Teens in need of assistance are then able to choose a dress free of charge on the condition that the gown is returned after it's worn.

Donations for formal dresses or accessories can be left at Great Oak High School attention Mr. Skaggs or arraignments for pickup can be made at thecouturegirlscloset@msn.com.

Great Oak High School
32555 Deer Hollow Way
Temecula, CA 92592

The Couture Girl's Closet
42030 Avenida Alvarado, Suite F
Temecula, CA 92590
(By Appointment Only)
951-757-2538
http://thecouturegirlscloset.com/default.aspx

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Groups help teens dress for prom

By Erica Shein
The Press-Enterprise

Marly Benavides, 19, of San Jacinto, didn't think she could afford to go to the prom.

"I would have to miss the last thing you do in high school," she said. "Going to prom is about making a memory that lasts forever."

The 12th-grader from Mountain View Alternative High School in San Jacinto lives with her husband and 6-month-old baby. With rent to pay and diapers to buy, going to the prom wasn't something she had money for.

Then she found Sunwest Village, a senior community in Hemet that's collecting dresses to help girls attend the formal event. This is the community's first year collecting dresses. Organizers reach out to five high schools in the area to let students know about the program.

Sunwest Village is one of many groups collecting used dresses, suits and accessories to help students create lasting memories of high school. The clothing is dry-cleaned and organized by sizes and styles.

With prom tickets averaging $60 and dresses starting at $150, many families cannot afford to send their students to the prom. Organizers said the economic downturn has increased the demand for help.

"It's so obvious to us that kids weren't participating in events like prom because of the expenses," said Christi Curtis, assistant principal at Paloma Valley High School in Menifee.

The high school organizes the Princess for a Night program. In its second year, the program has about 200 dresses in many sizes, colors and styles.

Curtis noticed that students who benefit from the program aren't all from families traditionally recognized as "underprivileged."

"Every family can use that extra help during times like this," she said.

Pat Williams, 68, of Mentone, organizes the Angel's Closet program at Redlands East Valley High School.

Williams and her granddaughter started collecting dresses for homecoming last October. She has about 140 dresses at her home. About 10 girls have trickled in to look for a dress. She said it's a rewarding experience to watch the girls find their dress.

The girls sift through the satin dresses, twirl in front of the mirror and chat with their friends and mothers to single out the perfect dress.

"It's like they are at a department store," Williams said. "The looks on their faces are priceless."

LaRee Orland, counselor at Redlands East Valley, said charity groups face the difficulty of identifying students who need help.

"There's definitely a need at the school, but we can't help the students if they don't tell us," she said.

Schools are hesitant to reach out to individual students because they don't want to embarrass them. Most groups try to create private shopping sessions, so students wouldn't have to acknowledge that they need help in front of their peers.

For example, the Princess for a Night program at Paloma Valley offers individual appointments for girls to pick out their dresses.

"It's cool that no one has to know," said Holly Lanier, 18, of Nuevo, a senior at Paloma Valley. "You have the whole room to yourself. It's even better than shopping at the mall."

Benavides is excited about the prom and happy about the dress she picked out at Sunwest Village. It's a strapless red dress with a diamond brooch. Benavides said she knew right away that the David's Bridal dress was "the one."

"It's like it's made for me," she said. "It fits perfect and it didn't cost a penny."

To donate


  • Sunwest Village in Hemet, 951-925-0822

  • Tahquitz High School in Hemet, 951-765-6300

  • Redlands East Valley High School in Redlands (Angel's Closet Program), 909-389-2500; and ask for counselor's office

  • Paloma Valley High School in Menifee (Princess for a Night Program), 951-672-6030

  • Chaparral High School in Temecula (Cinderella's Closet Program), 951-695-4200

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Schools, students budget for prom

This year's proms may retain their sheen of glitz and glam, but the truth is, teens are spending a lot less money on the traditional last big bash of the school year.

"Although times are not very favorable, going to prom for many students is a rite of passage," said Sandra Rodriguez, principal at San Bernardino High School.

Students, both individually and in committee groups, are seeking inexpensive alternatives on everything from clothes to transportation to dining to keep the tradition alive despite economic woes affecting many families.

AllStar Events & Venues in the Rancho Santa Margarita area of Orange County works with 45 high schools in Orange, Riverside and San Bernardino counties to negotiate the best prices on prom details such aslocation, catering and music.

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Nichole Griffith, 18, of Murrieta, shows her prom dress. Her advice to other teens: "Don't be afraid to go to the sales rack."

"We just came out of winter formals and the numbers for that were down," said Kenny Paul, owner of AllStar. About half the schools working with AllStar saw a drop in attendance, and most of those affected were in areas with a great deal of new homeownership such as in Lake Elsinore, Rancho Cucamonga and Temecula.

Riverside's John W. North High School saw a similar trend for its Midwinter Ball.

"We saw a marked decrease in attendance," said Rebecca Porter, activities director at North for 17 years. "We had 275 students this year and just about 500 last year. Tickets were only $25 ... we had fewer students attend this year than any of the previous years."

"We have approached our prom this year with great caution," Porter said. It is sponsored by the junior class, and in response to economic struggles this year, they are sponsoring a new fundraiser called "Threads." They are accepting donations of prom dresses, which are being sold at discount prices ($5-$10). Staff members also sometimes sponsor students by buying their prom tickets.

Tickets for prom generally cost about $40 to $60 depending on the location, much the same as in previous years, Paul said. But ticket price is usually only a small percentage of the total prom experience.

A gown can cost several hundred dollars, a limousine for the night may cost $500 or $600 and dinner can add about $20 or $30 per person, Porter said. Many students split these costs, but it can still add up to a $400 or $500 night.

North High senior Rachel Hale is sharing a limo with seven other students.

"It'll be $65 per person for the limo to pick us up, take us to dinner and prom and then back home again," Hale said. "I haven't gotten the dress yet, but dinner will be summer casual, so it'll cost about $20."

At the other end of the spectrum, North High student Katelin Wollner is borrowing her dress from a friend, and her group plans to carpool to dinner then prom, eating at Chipotle or somewhere similarly casual. With her $50 prom ticket and dinner, the total for the night will be around $60.

"I've seen some groups doing dinners at home before the dance, rather than eating out," Paul said. "Students are getting alternative transportation to limos, the boys are going with suits instead of tuxes ... event photographers are seeing a big drop. These are some of the things people feel they can pass on."

"One thing we're doing is for schools anticipating lower numbers, we're going back to venues where schools have already scheduled and getting them lower minimums," Paul said. "These schools are hurting from a budget standpoint themselves and don't have the extra money to subsidize a lot. The locations are working with the schools to meet their needs."

Individual students are looking for cheap alternatives to the clothing expense by shopping at outlets, thrift stores and sales racks for dresses, shoes and accessories.

Nichole Griffith, a senior at Murrieta Valley High School, found her prom dress on a clearance rack at Windsor, a women's apparel and accessory store in Corona, for $14.99. The dress is a shiny satin material with ornate beading along the v-neck front and strips of material over both shoulders and across the back.. Gold strappy shoes also bought on sale completed the look.

"With the economic times we are facing, teen prom shoppers are forced to buy cheaply," Griffith said. "I got my prom dress and shoes for a total of $17.16. The dress still had the original price tag of $149.90. My shoes cost $1 at a going-out-of-business sale."

North High teacher Rosalyn Anderson takes a group of students to the Jessica McClintock Outlet in Montclair each year for dresses. This year she took six students, three of whom found prom dress deals.

"I also ask friends to let me have any of their prom dresses hanging in closets collecting dust, and then I spread the word I have dresses available in my classroom for anyone interested."

"I paid $25 ... a lot of people don't have enough money and most of us are paying for our own dresses," said Cristal Flores, one of Anderson's students. "My boyfriend is borrowing a tuxedo from a friend."

Jessica McClintock Outlet manager Karina Ulloa has noticed business increasing this year.

"I've been working here for seven years and business had really gone down over the past couple years," Ulloa said. "But now it's picking up again. April and May are the busiest months with graduations and weddings."

"We have items from last season or two years ago. Or sometimes we get stuff from this season that was overstocked or has some small damages," Ulloa said. "They are 50 to 75 percent off the boutique prices, and then sometimes we have an additional discount sale.

Senior Lucia La Rosa found the most inexpensive gown -- $15 -- Anderson has seen in four years of outlet trips with students.

"No one has much money right now, so I think it was a good deal," La Rosa said. "For girls, the outlet is the best place I've heard of. The guys don't know what to do, they're going crazy."

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For the book lovers

I'm a little book-obsessed. OK, it's maybe more than a little. I always have books stashed in every location - throughout the house, in the car, at the office...

What if I have five minutes of downtime and there's no book handy? I'm always prepared for that eventuality. But this can be an expensive habit. Lately I've been hitting the used book stores in town to save money. Most offer a book exchange discount, or are at least less expensive pricing than buying new.

I came across an interesting site that offers a unique solution for this - www.bookswim.com. It's basically Netflix for books. They have different levels of membership that allow users to rent several books each month and then sign up for new books to be delivered when the others are returned.

Since both my kids are turning out to be similarly bookworm-ish, I was happy to see a very large children's section, as well as everything else from fiction to cookbooks. What a great idea!

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Site taps into wisdom of moms

I came across a very cool informational resource for moms - the Web site www.mamapedia.com. It's an informational resource pool for Moms on a wide variety of topics - everything from potty training to weight loss to teen curfew.

There's no registration required or cost involved. It's a community forum where moms can ask questions and other moms share their advice. So, for the mom's who might have an embarrassing question, or an issue they are wrestling with at 1 a.m., there's a place to go with answers or ideas from other people who know where she's coming from.

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Supernanny's looking for troubled kids

Jo Frost of ABC's "Supernanny" will be at Downtown Disney in front of the AMC Theaters at the Disneyland Resort April 25 and 26 from 12-4 p.m. to share parenting tips while the show's casting team meets families interested in being on the upcoming fifth season.

Producers are looking for families with unique interests, parents who have both ordinary and extraordinary circumstances, teen moms, parents with kids who are bullies, culturally diverse parents and blended families where both sides are seeking help.

Interested parents can apply at www.supernanny.com or e-mail at supernanny@shedmediaus.com. Call 877-626-6984 for more information.

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Wildlife area offers family fun

With its nature center and miles of hiking, biking and equestrian trails, the Hidden Valley Wildlife area is a close and inexpensive destination for anyone who enjoys the outdoors, said Ronald Baxter, natural resource manager for the Riverside County Regional Park and Open Space District.

The 1,500-acre park, nestled among the hills of southwest Riverside, has woods, scrubs, wildflowers and wildlife ranging from bobcats and gray fox to meadowlarks and turkey vultures.

"It's kind of the forgotten park," said Ronald Baxter, natural resource manager for the Riverside County Regional Park and Open Space District. "It's a great place to hike, picnic and bird watch."

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Jackson Elementary School first grade students check out their magnifying glasses before exploring the Hidden Valley Wildlife Area in Riverside.

Surrounding and including portions of the Santa Ana River, the park lies in Riverside just east of Norco. The park is maintained in a cooperative arraignment between the park district, the California Department of Fish and Game and the City of Riverside.

Park interpreter Margie Valdez said the nature center offers tours during the week that include hikes, crafts and games. Saturdays have family programs with such activities as bird walks. Mammals that inhabit the park include coyotes, bobcats, raccoons, skunks, possum, ground squirrels, cotton tail rabbit, gopher, long tailed weasels and the gray fox.

There are also more than 80 species of birds, including great blue heron, great egret, red tailed hawks, turkey vultures, northern harrier, kestrels, small birds such as meadow larks, western blue birds and migratory birds such as Canadian geese and white
pelicans.

"As the seasons progress there's always a different assemblage of birds," Baxter said. "The area's habitats include willows, cottonwoods, sycamores and some upper areas support coastal sage scrub.

The park is open from 7 a.m. to 4:30 p.m. daily. The hours will extend to 7 p.m. after Memorial Day through the summer season. The nature center is open to the public Saturdays and by appointment Monday through Friday.

HIDDEN VALLEY WILDLIFE AREA
Where: 11401 Arlington Ave., Riverside
Hours: The park is open 7 a.m.-4:30 p.m. daily; The Nature Center is open 10 a.m.-4 p.m. Saturdays and by appointment only Monday-Friday
Cost: $4 per vehicle
Information: 951-785-7452, www.hiddenvalleynaturecenter.org

UPCOMING EVENTS
Bird Walk
An experienced bird walker will guide visitors on a walk along the river bottom while identifying birds.
When: 8-11:30 a.m. April 25
Cost: $2 per person

Duck Daze
Family fun activities such as hayrides, crafts, games, live animal presentations, nature walks and more.
When: 10 a.m.-3 p.m., May 16
Cost: $4 per person

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Here comes summer

Here's another summer camp site with a ton of options: Pali Adventures Overnight Adventures

Campers can choose from 19 specialty adventures in four categories including Action, Performing, Creative and Leadership. Camps are for kids ages 9 to 16, except for Leadership, which focuses on fostering leadership skills for kids ages 15 and 16 only. Kids can stay from one to 10 weeks. Campers usually choose one area of specialty for the week. They participate in activities in that specialty area during the morning and then in the afternoon, the camper can decide on several electives. So he or she may spend a day in broadcasting, then go waterskiing, prepare a culinary dish and get a facial later that afternoon.

Open house is coming up!

Where: Pali Mountain, 30778 Highway 18, Lake Arrowhead
What: Have lunch, play games, try the ropes course, etc.
When: 1-4 p.m. May 3
RSVP: www.paliadventures.com/open-house-rsvp

Action
Extreme Action Adventure - Action packed, dirt filled, adreneline pumped adventures.
Girl Power Extreme - Lots of action, plus custom activities ranging from spa treatments to self defense classes.
Hollywood Stunt Camp - Professional stuntment will train campers to jump, tumble, stage-fight and high-fall doing major motion picture stunts.
Horseback Riding - Learn riding skills such as trotting, cantering and posting from expert equestrians.
Motorsports Extravaganza - Learn cutting edge driving techniques and precision racing maneuvers on all three of Pali's dirt tracks.
Secret Agent Camp - Learn stealth tactics, undercover maneuvers while participating in spy games, paintball challenges, high ropes course acrobatics and more.
Skate Camp - Learn to ollie, kick flip and grind the rails like a pro at Pali's custom skate park.
Watersports Extravaganza - During three hours of semi-private lessons by instructors will have you

Performing
Acting Academy - Campers will learn the basics of acting and are encouraged to explore difference genres including classical drama, comedy and action.
Broadcast Journalism - Campers will create and host a broadcast that airs each night at dinner for all of camp and then at 11 p.m. of the Web keeping parents informed of camp happenings.
Dance Academy - Professional dance instructors will guide campers through the basics of jazz, ballet, hip-hop, tap free form and contemporary dance.
Rock Star Camp - Learn the ins and outs of the business of rock and roll.
Theatre Academy - Learn everything there is to know about putting on a theater production and then put on a show.

Creative
Culinary Institute - Prepare up to ten dishes including Polynesian meatballs, panko-crusted vegetables with teriyaki dipping sauce and five cheese corn quesadillas with a team of camper chefs.
Fashion Design Institute - Become a trendsetter and design your own clothing lines from scratch.
Film Institute - Learn tips and tricks from industry experts on lighting, sound, camera work, editing technologies and more.
Magazine Publishing Camp
- Experience positions such as publisher, editor-in-chief, staff writer, photographer, graphic designer, distributor and more at a working publication.
Movie Makeup Academy - With the help of professional Hollywood makeup artists, campers will learn makeup application, creating unique disguises and more.

Leadership
Counselor in Training - Designed for campers age 16 who are interested in working as a summer camp counselor.
Leadership - For 15-year-olds who hope to become Pali camp counselors or want to develop leadership abilities for college and life.

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Redlands student shares her story

"CODY" premiers April 17 at Laemmle's Town Center 5 in Encino and will continue showing through April 23. After its LA showings, the film will go to New York's IFC Center from May 1 through 7.

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"I hope my story will shed some light on what it is really like to live with paralysis," said Unser. "I also hope that the film will lead to more research dollars so that paralysis - not just for me, but for all people - will become a treatable and reversible diagnosis."

Unser, daughter of race car driver Al Unser Jr., was playing in a school basketball game when she began feeling short of breath and her legs went numb. She was soon diagnosed as paralyzed from the chest down.

At age 13 she founded the Cody Unser First Step Foundation to raise money to find a cure and over the past five years she has lobbied state legislatures and Congress in favor of stem-cell research.

The documentary, produced by Christopher Productions and The Cody Unser First Step Foundation, was filmed in part at the University of Redlands.

'CODY'
Laemmle's Town Center 5
Where: 17200 Ventura Blvd., Encino
When: April 17-23
Information: 818-981-9811

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For all you Twitter fans, MOMarama is now on Twitter! Look for PEcom_moms to follow Inland Mom happenings.

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Youth art classes at RAM

Several youth art classes are about to begin at the Riverside Art Museum. If you have a little artist in training, here are the details:

Riverside Art Museum
3425 Mission Inn Ave.
951-684-7111
www.riversideartmuseum.org

C10 Mommy & Me and Daddy Too!
Ages 3 to 10
When: 9:30-10:30a.m. Saturdays, April 18 to May 23
What: Children and accompanying adults get to create fabulous works of art including drawings, paintings and paper sculpture in a fun, creative, stress-free atmosphere. All supplies are provided.
Cost: $75 ($67.50 for Museum members) for one child and accompanying adult participant. Add $15 for each additional participant.
Instructor: RAM staff

C11 Mixed Media
Ages 7-12
When: 11 a.m.-12:30 p.m. Saturdays, April 18-May 23
What: This class is intended to give students the opportunity to express themselves with a variety of art experiences including drawing, painting, clay and sculpture. All supplies will be provided.
Cost: $87 (Museum members)
Instructor: RAM staff

C6 Fun with Clay
Ages 6-10
When: 4-5:30 p.m. Wednesdays, April 22-May 27
What: Learn to make a variety of objects, toys and pots. Learn coil and slab techniques using air dry clay. Work with a ceramic artist and learn the ins and outs of creating hand built objects.
Cost: $87 ($78.30 Museum members)
Instructor:
Melissa Culley

Contact Youth Education Curator Pamela Atkinson for more information.

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Steve-O, Lacey go home

Steve-O and Lacey Schwimmer, Moreno Valley and Redlands native, were this week's dismissed dancers on ABC's "Dancing With the Stars."

The couple had the lowest scores from the judges several weeks running.

Steve-O, who was open throughout the show about his substance recovery program, said he felt good about the challenges he met - including an on-set injury - without drugs.

"I met a lot of challenges, I made a lot of mistakes and the fans kept me around long enough to learn from it all," he said. "It's forced me to grow as a person and for that I'm very grateful."

Seven celebs remain in the competition including rapper Lil Kim; rodeo champ Ty Murray; former football star Lawrence Taylor; olympic gymnast Shawn Johnson; country singer Chuck Wicks; "Bachelor" star Melissa Rycroft; and actor Gilles Marini.

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Talking with kids about too-sexy TV stuff

Written by guest author Maura Ammenheuser on the topic "Are kids' ads too sexy?"

I saw the Burger King ad. I probably would not have noticed it much except that I had already read something about it, and that there's at least one parenting group that's complained to Burger King. Usually when the TV ads come on, I bury my nose in a magazine or a book.



Maura Ammenheuser
Guest Author


But meanwhile my kids' eyes are still glued to the TV, commercials and all, and sure enough, when the SpongeBob/Burger King/butt-shaking ad played out, there was my not-quite-7-year-old daughter, on her feet and shaking her tushie all over the family room.

She has an annoying enthusiasm for this little move anyway and it doesn't take much to get her started. (I'm still not sure where she picked it up originally -- from TV ads? Movies?) Usually when my girl pulls a move like this, I have two conflicting reactions, which clearly aren't helping my parenting. I'm part horrified and part struggling not to laugh, because she really is funny, jumping all over the place with a gleeful grin and still too innocent to really grasp the sexual connotations of what she sees.

So I was dismayed that Burger King decided to encourage some grade-school butt-shimmying, but meanwhile I haven't yet come up with a pat explanation for my children of the too-sexy stuff they see on TV. (We HAVE discussed "bad" words, by telling out kids they can ask us what any word means and we will calmly explain it. Then we add that these words are usually uttered by grownups who aren't articulate enough to use better words, and at any rate, they're not kid words so don't use them. Etc., etc.)

I did read a magazine article about a year ago that advised parents to explain to school-age children that "sexy," whether as a general concept or a specific gesture or piece of clothing, is something that grownups feel, and that when the kids grow into adult bodies they'll feel it too, but as children their bodies are not ready for that, so they don't have to act, talk, dress or move "sexy." I thought that was as good a way to deal with the matter as any other but I honestly have not had this conversation nearly enough, especially with my little booty-shaking daughter.

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Planning for the freebies

With a little advance planning you can take the family to many different museums in the area for free. Most offer free admission one day each month and many times, there are family activities planned on that day. So here's the scoop on the freebies:

First Sundays
Riverside Art Museum, Riverside Metropolitan Museum and San Bernardino County Museum all offer free admission on the first Sunday of each month. Sometimes it's just free admission, other times the Sunday coincides with a Family Fun Day that includes crafts, games or other activities.
RAM, 3425 Mission Inn Ave., Riverside 909-684-7111
Riverside Metropolitan, 3580 Mission Inn Ave., Riverside 951-826-5273
SB County Museum, 2024 Orange Tree Lane, Redlands 909-307-2669

First Tuesday
The Page Museum (La Brea Tar Pits) and the Natural History Museum of Los Angeles County are both free on the first Tuesday of every month.
Page Museum, 5801 Wilshire Blvd., Los Angeles 323-934-7243
Natural History Museum, 900 Exposition Blvd., Los Angeles 213-763-3466

Second Tuesday
The Autry National Center of the American West and the Los Angeles County Museum of Art are both free on the second Tuesday of every month.
Autry National Center, 4700 Western Heritage Way, Los Angeles 323-667-2000
LA County Museum of Art, 5905 Wilshire Blvd., Los Angeles 323-857-6000

First Thursday
The Huntington Library in San Marino is also free the first Thursday of every month if tickets are ordered at www.huntington.org or by calling 800-838-3006.
1151 Oxford Rd., San Marino 626-405-2100

Anytime
Head to the California Science Center in Los Angeles anytime for
free, although donations are encouraged.
700 State Dr., Los Angeles 323-724-3223

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Kid-friendly activities, shopping

The Lake Elsinore Outlet offers free kid-friendly activities every Friday from 10:30 to 11:30 a.m. in Suite 106. There are two more April Friday's and then a new group of activities are planned for May. Here's the lowdown:

April 17
Children can grow their creativity with a flowerpot and flower recipe card holder craft.
April 24
Get them saving with a piggy bank craft.
May 1
Celebrate Mother's Day by making a foam flowers bouquet.
May 15
Polynesian dancers will perform and then children get to participate in a lei craft.
May 22
Children can learn about safari animals and have a chance to visit some unique safari animals up close.
May 29
Children can participate in a bird house mobile craft.

Visit www.lakeelsinore.outlet.com for more details.

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Share your camp suggestion

I'll be compiling summer camp suggestions from all over the Inland region, but there's a lot out there.

I'm finding anything from art, sports and science day camps at area art centers and museums to waterski, rock climbing and music camps in local mountains.

If you have a cool summer camp idea for kids, share it here. Please include contact information so interested families can get all the details.

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Share your activity ideas

I'll be adding regular blog entries with budget-friendly family activity ideas, but there's a lot out there.

Museums are offering free admission days, libraries are hosting free family fun activities and shopping destinations are hosting family craft, music or game days to name just a few things to do for the families looking for fun on a budget.

If you have an idea for an inexpensive family activity, share it here.

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Camp brings back old fashioned play

This summer's day camp activities at the San Bernardino County Museum will offer activities for little ones and the big kids with old fashioned play and animal friends.

Grandma's Attic
Ages 4-7
This is a special mini-summer day camp for our mini-friends with their special adult. Each parent, grandparent or responsible adult may bring up to three children ages 4-7 to Grandma's Attic and play alongside them.

It takes families back to a simpler time when kids made their own fun and imaginations ruled. The imaginary attic will have old-fashioned toys and games. Build a fort from boxes, make a pinwheel, play dress up, etc.

When: 8:30 a.m.-12 p.m., June 29-July 1
Cost: $75 per child for non-members; $65 per child for members, free for accompanying adults
Register: Deadline is June 19 at 4 p.m.
Information: 909-307-2669, ext. 256, www.sbcountymuseum.org

Animals Around Us
Ages 7-12
This camp focuses on the diversity of animal life in our urban environment. Which animals like living with humans and which ones avoid us? Which make good pets and which don't? Campers will get to meet some local animal residents up close and observe others from a distance. On Friday afternoon the campers' families will be invited to attend a "Celebration of Animals" from 1:30 to 2:30 p.m. to meet and hear about some of their child's favorite new friends.

Session 1: July 6-10 8:30 a.m.-2:30 p.m.
Session 3: July 20-24, 8:30 a.m.-2:30 p.m.
Cost: $155 (non-members), $135 (museum members) per week

Playing with History
Ages 7-12
Step into the past and play with history to find out what life was like long ago. Learn about the first people who lived here and the Spanish and American settlers who expanded into this area. Find out how your grandparents lived in the 20th century. Throw a spear, make a broom, beat a rug, make a real adobe brick, learn to dance the "Charleston" and more. At the end of each week campers' families will join for a "Historic Celebration."

Session 2: July 13-17, 8:30 a.m.-2:30 p.m.
Session 4: July 27-31, 8:30 a.m.-2:30 p.m.
Cost: $155 (non-members), $135 (museum members) per week

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From rockets to friendship bracelets

Looking for some variety in your summer camps? Check out My Learning Studio in Riverside, where day camps range from building rockets to making toe rings and getting a pedicure.

My Learning Studio
17072 Van Buren Blvd., Riverside
www.mylearningstudio.com
951-789-5402

Space Cadettes
July 6-10
Make your own solar system, edible martians and explore the planets in this camp. Find out if Pluto is really a planet and how many moons Saturn has. Build a rocket that will be launched on the last day at camp.

Exploring Eruptions & Reactions
July 20-24
Explore chemical reactions and the why and how volcanos erupt. Build your own volcano and rocket to be erupted and launched on the final day of camp. This is the MOST POPULAR camp, so register early.

How the Body Works

Part I July 13-17
Part II August 3-7
Learn about how the body works through taste, touch, creation, painting and more.

Jus' for Girls
August 10-14
Bring out your inner girly girl with a week of facials, manicures, pedicurese and making bath salts. You'll also make toe rings, bracelets, charms and friendship pins, in addition to new friends.

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Gearing up for summer camp time

Summer camp time is just around the corner so I'll be posting camp suggestions on a regular basis. Here's the first of many in the Inland region:

Summer Egyptian Art Workshop For Kids
Where: Robert V. Fullerton Art Museum, CSUSB, 5500 University Parkway, San Bernardino
Who: 6th grade students (ages 11-12)
When: July 27-30, 2009. Two sessions: 9:30 a.m.-12:30 p.m. & 3-6 p.m.
Cost: $60.00 ($50.00 for Friends of the Robert V. Fullerton Art Museum, CSUSB Alumni Association members, and CSUSB's faculty and staff)
Contact: Tiffany Talavera at (909) 537-3374 or email ttalaver@csusb.edu

Each year the Robert V. Fullerton Art Museum organizes the Summer Egyptian Art Workshop for Kids. This popular, week-long, after-school program draws students from neighboring communities throughout San Bernardino County.

The workshop is conducted during the months of July or August and includes many hands-on activities as well as educational lectures and special tours of the art museum's extensive collection of Egyptian antiquities.

Participating students learn about Egyptian history, culture and art. Led by trained docents, children participate in a variety of art projects including staged-archeological digs, molding clay figurines and making beads out of authentic ancient Egyptian molds. In the process of learning about Egypt through art, students also learn basic art concepts and vocabulary that are then applied to each of their hands-on projects.

The Museum, in partnership with the Art Education program at CSUSB, collaborates with art educators from local schools to create the workshop curriculum. The hard work, dedication and creative imagination of all the participants result in a fun learning environment, which opens an entirely new world of art to the young minds.

For more summer camp ideas go here.

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Moms, you need to have The Talk

"O, The Oprah Magazine" and "Seventeen" magazine recently partnered up for a survey that investigated communication between mothers and daughters. The findings showed that having the sex talk before daughters become sexually active can make a difference.

"It can be awkward for mothers to talk to their teenage daughters about sex," said Susan Reed, "O, The Oprah Magazine" editor in chief. "We learned that mothers - nearly three-quarters (74 percent) of whom didn't have The Talk with their own mothers before their first time - seem to be open to talking with their daughters, they just need the right communication tools to be heard."

Behavior finding in the study were:

  • 78 percent of the girls surveyed who are no longer virgins say they've had sex without using a condom, and 65 percent of them admitted they lied about or hid it from their mothers.

  • 56 percent of the girls who are no longer virgins say they've had sex without any form of birth control and 66 percent have kept it a secret from their mothers.

  • 30 percent of the 15 to 18 year olds in the survey have had oral sex.


How The Talk made a difference:
  • 60 percent of the girls that participated in the study said talking to their mothers affected their decisions about sex.

  • 26 percent said talking with their mothers has made them practice (or plan to practice) safe sex. The same number said it made them wait (or plan to wait) longer to have it.

  • 18 percent said The Talk made them use (or plan to use) hormonal birth control.

The May issues of "Seventeen" and "O, The Oprah Magazine" are both already out on newsstands.

The Sex Talk Survey was conducted online by Harris Interactive for both magazines between January 5 and 15 among 1,122 girls ages 15 to 22 and 1,098 mothers who have daughters ages 15-22.

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Michaels stores offer free family days

Michaels - one of my favorite stores to get lost in - has a new series of free family activities day.

These Family Fun Events, titled "The Knack," are meant to help kids explore their creativities with projects and crafts designed just for kids. All 1,000 plus Michaels stores are participating. So here's the details for April:

The Knack - Science
When: 1-3 p.m., April 11
What: Kids can learn to think like a scientist with hands-on demo science experiments.

The Knack - Spring
When: 10 a.m.-1 p.m., April 18
What: Kids can make spring critters out of fun shapes. Critters go home with their creators.

Share your ideas for inexpensive things to do at www.PE.com/cheapseats.

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Kids meal ad provokes letter campaign

The Campaign for a Commercial-Free Childhood (CCFC) has launched a letter-writing campaign demanding Nickelodeon and Burger King pull a new TV commercial advertising Sponge Bob Square Pants Kids Meals.

The ad features the King singing a remix of the 1990s song, "Baby Got Back" by Sir Mix-A-Lot with changed lyrics saying "I like square butts and I cannot lie." Behind King a bunch of women are shaking their butts at the camera along with images of Sponge Bob dancing along.

"It's bad enough when companies use a beloved media character like Sponge Bob to promote junk food to children, but it's utterly reprehensible when that character simultaneously promotes objectified, sexualized images of women," said CCFC director Susan Linn, a psychologist at the Judge Baker Children's Center.

See the ad at www.youtube.com

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Inland talent takes over 'Dancing'

In tonight's "Dancing With the Stars," we got a triple hitter of Inland local talent with Moreno Valley native and "Dancing" cast member Lacey Schwimmer, a performance by her brother Benji Schwimmer, winner of the 2006 season of "So You Think You Can Dance," and Riverside area resident Etta James, with a special performance of "At Last."

Steve-O and Lacey - despite sitting at the bottom of the judging pool yet again - got a "you're safe" pass early on in the evening, much to their mutual surprise if their expressions were any indication.

Bottom tier couples this week?
David Alan Grier and Kym Johnson, Lawrence Taylor and Edyta Sliwinska. Dance off time.

In the end, it was David and Kym with the lowest combined scores up through and including this week 5 episode. Poor David, he looks really sad.

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Free fun for the fam

Parents are looking for ways to stretch a buck even farther these days. Southern California's libraries, museums and other organizations are increasingly happy to oblige, offering free or inexpensive family programs and activities.

On Sunday, families converged on downtown Riverside for the monthly First Sunday activities. Each month from October through May seven area organizations offer an afternoon of free activities such as crafts, music, workshops and more.

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Bubble boy Thomas Rollins, 4 of Riverside, center puts his arm into a bubble made by Sue Boyles of Riverside, left at First Congregational Church of Riverside.

Riverside Art Museum, Riverside Metropolitan Museum, Riverside Public Library, UCR California Museum of Photography, UCR Sweeney Art Gallery, the Mission Inn, the Girl Scouts of San Gorgonio Council and the First Congregational Church participate each month in these activities, as well as other events geared toward families.

The San Bernardino County Museum also has free admission on the first Sunday of each month, sometimes coupled with family day events. The Biane Library in Rancho Cucamonga offers free weekly preschool and family story time activities in addition to other free events such as its upcoming Arts and Literature Family Fun Night April 17.

Two Temecula libraries host free weekly children's programs such as the upcoming "The Earth Is In Our Hands" Environmental Magic Show April 15 at the Temecula Public Library and Crafty Kids April 20 at the Grace Mellman Library.

The final Riverside First Sunday activities will fall on May 3 and then it will begin again in October.

"Captain Carl and His Mobile Tide Pool will be at the Riverside Metropolitan Museum on that day," said Marilyn Morris, coordinator for First Sundays at the Library. "When he comes, that's always the biggest day of the year. We'll have 500 people."

Each organization will have other activities for children and teens throughout the summer, including summer reading programs and summer camps. First Sundays will return October 4.

Venture outside Riverside and San Bernardino Counties for more budget-friendly family activities. The Autry National Center of the American West is free on the second Tuesday of every month. The Huntington Library in San Marino is also free the first Thursday of every month if tickets are ordered at www.huntington.org or by calling 800-838-3006.

Admission is free to the Los Angeles County Museum of Art on the second Tuesday of each month and next door, the Page Museum is free on the first Tuesday of each month.

Head to the California Science Center in Los Angeles anytime for free, although donations are encouraged. Then round off the day with a trip to the Natural History Museum of Los Angeles County in Exposition Park on the first Tuesday of the month for one last freebie.

First Sundays
Where: Downtown Riverside, Mission Inn Ave.
When: First Sunday of each month from October through May
Hours: 1-4 p.m.
Cost: Free
Information: www.inlandarts/com/event/detail/37503

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'Dancing' stars Lacey, Stevo get thumbs up

After sitting at the bottom of the judges scoreboard with solid 5s in last week's episode of "Dancing With the Stars," Moreno Valley native Lacey Schwimmer and her partner Steve-O performed a sweet, but slightly strange waltz ... dressed as mimes.

Len Goodman said: "I'm always being negative about you - don't get overexcited - but it was your best dance."

Bruno Tonioli said: "You're timing was on tonight. There's still more to do, but it was a step in the right direction."

Carrie Ann Inaba said: "The only problem - if you are back next week - work on your posture."

Scores? Carie Anne 6, Len 6, Bruno 6. Best scores for the couple so far.

Tune in tomorrow night to see if our local stays in her dancing shoes.

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Moreno Valley toddler makes top 10

Moreno Valley toddler Isabella Vertti, 2, is a finalist in the online Pull-Ups Potty Dance contest. Videos were submitted by parents and a panel of judges has narrowed it down to the top 10 finalists.

Little Isabella is known as "Princess Isabella" in the contest. Look for Isabella wearing all pink and a ballet tutu, dancing on top of her toy box to spot her in the video at www.DoThePottyDance.com.

Isabella began the potty training process just a couple months ago, said Alexandra Vertti, Isabella's mom.

Fans can vote once each day at www.DoThePottyDance.com until 4/25/09. The winner will be announced online on 4/30/09.

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Prom on a budget

Prom season is upon us and for many families, the cost might be a tough sell this year. But some schools and students are gearing up for the challenge with creative solutions.

Nichole Griffith already did her shopping for her Murrieta Valley High School prom, scheduled for May 2 at the San Diego Wild Animal Park. She hit a Windsor Fashions clearance rack and snagged a prom dress for $14.99 (original price $149.90). The matching shoes were a $1 thrift store find.

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Murrieta resident Nichole Griffith, 18,tries on her new prom dress purchased off a sales rack at Windsor Fashions.

"I went to a local thrift store and it just happened to be all shoes for $1 day," Griffith said. "The dress didn't look good on the rack, but after you took it off the hanger it was so nice. My last prom dress ... sophomore year ... was $60, still pretty good. It was on sale too."

After sharing her good deals with friends, many others decided to head for the sales racks, hoping for similar finds.

Rosalyn Anderson, a teacher at John W. North High School in Riverside has her own yearly prom tradition. She drives a group of students to the Jessica McClintock Outlet in Montclair to search for prom deals.

"Yesterday I took six girls," Anderson said. "Three of the six bought dresses, one dress was $40 ... the other two $15 and $25. I also ask friends to let me have any of their prom dresses hanging in closets collecting dust to donate them to me and then I spread the word that I have dresses available in my classroom for anyone interested."

San Bernardino High School also has a program for prom and other formal occasions.

"Each year our cheer coach and prom teacher advisor seeks dresses from the staff, graduates and community members for clean and gently worn formal dresses," said Sandra Rodriquez. "We also work with a seamstress located across the street from our school. She makes custom dresses at extremely low prices."

This year San Bernardino High School's prom will be at the Queen Mary in Long Beach. It was booked about a year in advance.

"For the last two years we have offered packages that include prom tickets, cap and gown; and other senior activities," Rodriguez said. "We encourage our families to utilize the payment plans ... we offer plans that will spread the costs over a school year.

"Although times are not favorable, going to prom for many students is a rite of passage. For many, it will be their first date or their first formal event. Our families want to make sure that their children have a great memory of this special event ... I know that our school communities and business partners will work together to ensure a spectacular night for our kids."

If you have ideas/suggestions for creating a great prom on a tight budget, please share here!

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Looking for theater talent

Riverside Youth Theatre is seeking talented young performers for its Summer Youth Theatre Festival.

Youth from first-grade level to 20 years of age are encouraged to audition for the musical shows "Mulan Jr." and "On Broadway Now."

"Mulan Jr." is a stage adaptation of Disney's animated film that tells the story of a young girl who disguises herself as a male soldier to prevent family disgrace and ends up saving imperial China form the Huns. The score includes favorites like "Reflection," "Honor to Us All" and "I'll Make a Man Out of You." Sixty students from first through eighth grades will be cast.

"On Broadway Now" is a revue featuring music from recent musicals on Broadway, including "Grease," "Jersey Boys," "Legally Blonde," "Mary Poppins," and "The Little Mermaid." Sixty teen-agers from grade sent though to 20 years of age will be cast.

Vocal auditions will be April 23 at 3 p.m. at Fellowship Baptist Church, 3624 Arlington Ave., in Riverside. Hopefuls should plan to sing one minute of a show tune.

Information: www.RiversideYouthTheatre.org or call (951) 756-4240.

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Share your ideas

Know of something that will cost you nothing or next to it in the Inland area?

Go tell the world at www.PE.com/cheapseats.

You might need to create an account so you can post it, but it's pretty painless.

This is new, but I'm already seeing some great activities including a knitting workshop, a basic bike maintenance class for the cyclers out there and a ticket deal for the USS Midway Museum.

Visit the site to post your idea, or to look for an inexpensive outing.

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Winning the Video Game Tug-of-War

Written by Guest Author Trudie Mitschang:

My general approach to parenting is that most things are O.K. in moderation. I apply that principle to sugary snacks, TV time and video games. I realize my philosophy is somewhat subjective since moderation for one mom may cross the common sense line of another.. And at the risk of churning out clichés, every kid really is different. Some are more easily addicted to activities than others, and I think the key is making sure that video games are one of their favorite pastimes, not their only pastime.

Trudie Mitschang
Guest Author

When my kids got their first gaming systems, they wanted to play constantly. My daughter, at 6, is not as obsessed as my 11-year old son, but they can both get pretty zoned out if I let them. One thing that helps, especially with my son, is scheduling play dates with kids who have other interests besides gaming. I notice when he hangs out with friends who enjoy spending the afternoon practicing ollies, he's more focused on competing in the skate park than winning virtual world wars.

When it comes to setting limits on playing time, I think exposing kids to as many other activities as possible is better than telling them they need to stop playing video games so often. That just turns it into a power struggle, and as moms, we already have enough of those to contend with..

My kids like to remind me that most of their friends have way cooler gaming systems than we do. I've always felt a bit smug about that fact; I was not buying a new system just because the neighbors had one. We had a Playstation, and doggonit that was good enough! But as I write this blog, I realize I've gradually given an inch and then a yard - we now have a Playstation, Xbox, PSP (Playstation Portable) two Leapsters, and three Nintendo DS systems (one is broken). We even had the Wii for about a year, but sold it on eBay after the kids lost interest.

Now what was I saying about moderation?

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PBS show goes green for another season

PBS show Curiosity Quest aired the first of 13 new episodes in its second season of "Curiosity Quest Goes Green" March 30. This episode will repeat Friday, April 3 at 6:30 p.m. Each week host Joel Greene will go on "green" quests dedicated to earth-friendly practices, exploring environmental innovations.

The television program, aimed at elementary and middle-school students, will highlight topics such as how electronics are recycled, how trash can become energy and how milk jugs are transformed into kids toys.

Special to The Press-Enterprise
"Curiosity Quest" host Joel Greene visits an exotic animal rescue facility in the new season of "Curiosity Quest Goes Green."

For each show, Greene selects a viewer submitted question or quest request and follows up. The 30 minute weekly episodes will run through June 22.

Some of the quest destinations will include Patagonia Clothing Manufacturer, an exotic animal rescue facility and a water treatment facility.

Episodes air Mondays at 7:30 p.m. on KVCR, Inland Empire channel 24, 25 or 26, repeating Friday at 6:30 p.m. In the Coachella Valley, "Curiosity Quest" airs Mondays at 7:30 p.m. on KVCR cable channel 9 and on Tuesdays at 7 p.m. on KVCR-2 satellite channel 18.

For more information go to www.curiosityquest.org

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Affordable family fun in San Diego

We're all looking for free fun for the kids these days.

From the folks at Travel Zoo:

Take the kids aboard the exciting USS Midway Museum with this special: Get a FREE youth ticket (Reg. $9) with every adult ticket (Reg. $17) purchased.

The historic aircraft carrier is home to incredible 20th-century history: It's 47-year history stretches from World War II to Desert Storm.

Be sure to make your way up to the Midway's flight deck, which showcases dozens of restored planes and offers fantastic views of San Diego's harbor. For flight enthusiasts and daredevils, test your "Top Gun" skills aboard one of several flight simulators (additional fees apply).

Located alongside Navy Pier on the Embarcadero in downtown San Diego, the USS Midway Museum is also in a fantastic location for harbor strolls.

**Note: You can only get this deal online.

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